4×4 Style-What To Wear To A Wedding

What to wear to a wedding

Wedding season is upon….and graduation season….and beach season….and grilling season….and well, you know. I’m exhausted just looking at that list! What’s even more exhausting is figuring out what to wear. But no need to worry! Grace, Jealeyni, Luci and I are back with our monthly series 4×4 Style and this time we’re helping you figure out-what should I wear to a wedding?

What to wear to a formal wedding

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I have never personally been to a formal wedding (I actually haven’t been to many weddings period), but that doesn’t stop a girl from dreaming about all the glamorous things she could wear if she got invited to said wedding. I can envision myself now draped in some form of a Chanel gown and dazzling in Tiffany jewels with pretty red-bottomed shoes on my feet…..back to reality, Alyssa! Back. To. Reality. Oh hey Zara dress! I think you and my budget will get along a lot better!!

So are we all back down from the couture clouds now? Good! Let’s go over a few rules for what to wear to a wedding that requires formal attire—-

-DON’T wear white. I hope this would go without saying (do I even have to tell you why?!), but never the less, I have seen people where white to a wedding. Don’t do it, just don’t!

-DO wear black or other dark shades. Personally, I would avoid bright colors or crazy prints or anything to overpowering for a formal event. Black is always a safe and trusty option that you can’t go wrong with and it instantly makes you look put together.

-DON’T wear anything showy, flashy, or trashy and nothing too short (in a dream world all dresses for a formal event would be floor length).

-DO wear classic silhouettes.

-DON’T overdo it with the jewels. If there is ever a time to limit your accessories, this is it. You can wear big sparkly earrings (like I did) but don’t do earrings, a necklace, and a huge arm party. I think art deco pieces (I’m obsessed with all of these right now) make especially good formal jewelry.

-DO add a pop of color with your nail polish and/or lipstick. For winter, I like to do reds, and for summertime I like coral shades (similar to my nails and lips in the pictures).

Not going to a formal wedding? Here’s some inspiration for what to wear to a wedding that is traditional,outdoors, or at the beach. Don’t forget to show us what you would wear to a wedding using #4x4style on Twitter and Instagram! And make sure to let us know if there are any trends you would love to see in the #4x4style, either in the comments below or by Tweeting or Facebooking us with the trend (don’t forget to include the hashtag!).

Never Ending Black and White Story

black and white fashionTurban/Headband: vintage scarf (similar), Sunnies: Walmart (similar), Necklace: DIY from old jewelry parts (similar), Coat: Madine, Dress: Zara (similar), Tights: Express, Heels: Nine West, Bag: BCBGeneration c/o Lockerz

Black and white outfit  While black and white is (and always will be) a favorite of mine I am a) beyond ready for color, b) longing for sandals & no-jacket-required outfits and c) sounding like a hypocrite, the latter of which, the weather is, of course, entirely to blame for. There are only so many ways to style a winter coat and only so many pictures I can take sans jacket (freezing while taking pictures isn’t exactly a skill I possess, who would have thought), so black and white we meet again. But spring, my blue shoes and I are ready and waiting for you. Like yesterday….

Nine West Flax Pumps

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Tulle-ing Around

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Necklace: BCBG Max Azria, Shirt: Eight Sixty via Diana Warner (similar), Tutu: DIY (similar), Tights: Target (similar), Shoes: Zara, Bag: Chanel (another beautiful vintage one)

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Dear Monday,

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You would be a lot better if you always came dressed in tutus, jewels, snake print and Chanel.

how to wear a tutu Oh, and can you let the other days know they would ALL actually be better if they came dressed that way??

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Sincerely, a tutu loving gal

Casual Glam

IMG_3028 Hat, Bag & Shirt: H&M, Necklace: BCBG Max Azria, Vest: F21, Tutu: DIY (similar), Tights: Target (similar), Heels: Zara

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For whatever reason, this outfit makes me think of “glamping”. To be clear, I did not style this outfit for the purpose of “glamping” nor do I intend to go “glamping”.

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However, if I were by some small, teeny tiny chance to go, I would obviously be totally appropriate and show up in heels, rockin’ a tutu and with my neck iced in jewels.

IMG_3029I mean, let’s be honest, is there really any other way to camp??!!

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Last Minute Holiday Dresses Under $50

I like to think of myself as always being prepared. And by being prepared, I mean running around at the last possible second to get things done. Well most people have their houses decorated, the presents wrapped, the cookies baked & the stockings hung, welllllll, lets just say I’m still working on the decorating part (how many days do I have left?! 6?? 7??). And forget about having time to think about a Christmas/New Years outfit. If you happen to fall into the “procrastinator anonymous club” like me, there’s still hope for you. Below are 5 dresses all under $50 (budget friendly is always good at a time when you’ve probably spent all your money on gifts) and you can purchases the in-store items in time for Christmas or order any of the dresses for a pre-New Year’s Eve arrival.
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1. Forever 21 2. Ruche 3. Zara 4. Asos  5. Modcloth